Comments on: Ex Back????????

By: leslieja

leslieja — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 13:35:48 +0000

u say sorry and if she says no then just keep on telling her that u love her and tell her that u made a mistake and its never going to happen again, and tell her that u cant stop thinking about her, and send flowers and poetry and send sorry cards i think she is going to 4give u.. unless u broke up with her a few times then i don’t think that she’ll be back..
hope i helped:D.

By: Agent99

Agent99 — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 13:08:47 +0000

Be careful what you wish for. Could it be that the grass looked greener on the other side of the fence, but, once you climbed over you found more weeds than you had in your own yard, so to speak? Could it be that you want what you can no longer have? Or, was this a “test” gone wrong? I mean, did you move out, and ask for a divorce because you felt insecure and wanted (needed) her to beg you to come back, only to have it backfire on you?
May I suggest individual and/or couples counseling? Universities that offer graduate degrees in counseling sometimes offer counseling on a sliding scale, or at a very reduced rate because in order to earn their degree, grad students must intern as a counselor somewhere (under the direction and guidance of a professor or established counselor) in order to obtain their degree. I suggest this in case finances might be a concern. Additionally, some companies have psychologists that employees can see for a small co-pay. I wish you well.

By: redhd76

redhd76 — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 12:55:28 +0000

hopefully first of all you have dealt with whatever your issue was the caused you to leave her in the first place. next, you must pray, and pray hard for restoration if that is what you really want. if you don’t deal with the underlying issues you will only find yourself in the same boat again, possibly with more holes, sinking even faster!
oh! and whatever you do – don’t beg! let her know your intentions, see how she feels about it and go from there. treat her like you did when y ou were falling in love and never neglect her again.

By: OhSoFly!

OhSoFly! — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 12:24:21 +0000

IMO you blew it learn from it and sorry for your loss-hugz