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Save Your Relationship with These 3 Counterintuitive Techniques

Trying to save your relationship can be a very difficult thing to do. There is always the worry that you’ll make one wrong move and lose the person you love forever.

Unfortunately, what feels like the right thing to do, is often wrong. Most times we should follow the ‘counterintuitive path’. When we feel like calling is when we should stay cool instead. When we feel like pouring our hearts out is when we should put a lid on it.

As a warning, the techniques you’re about to discover you may have never seen before and at first glance may look and feel wrong, but have been proven time and again to be effective in even what seems the most complicated situations.

Counterintuitive Technique #1

The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be very difficult to do and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you’re able to do so.

It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you’ve been nagging them about getting back together.

Counterintuitive Technique #2

The second technique you need to use is to cut off all communication. You’re probably about ready to close your browser right now! Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you are serious.

By not communicating you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly. It also sets you up for the next technique.

Counterintuitive Technique #3

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How to Get Your Ex’s Attention After A Breakup

Getting your ex’s attention back after a breakup may at first seem like a difficult, if not impossible…but it’s far from it. In fact, it doesn’t even have to be hard if you know what you’re doing, and I’m here to help you out in that area. Here are just a few tips for grabbing your ex’s attention and not letting it go…without ever having to actually confront him!

Tip 1: Sever contact with him as soon as you guys break up. I know that seems like an odd thing to say as a tip for getting his attention, but it actually will help to get you on his mind. One major mistake people make after a breakup is to stay too close…regular contact keeps the two from being affected by that old phrase “absence makes the heart grow fonder.” By cutting off contact, you’ll actually allow your ex some real chance to miss you, and you’ll end up being on his mind as much as he’s on yours…after all, doesn’t not being with him put HIM at the top of your mind?

Tip 2: Use this time to make yourself look as good as absolutely possible. It may seem like a shallow thing, but looking better than ever is very eye-catching, and if there have been any issues you’ve been griping about or wanting to fix but never did, now’s a great time to take care of them now. Doing so shows a motivation and drive to improve yourself that no number of 3AM phone calls and text messages ever could. Not to mention, if you look hot you’ll attract other male attention and spur on a little of that “hey that’s mine” jealousy.

Tip 3: Keep yourself in the social light. Stay active out in the real world, and look like you’re moving on without him just fine. Even more than looking good, doing well without your ex is a great way to almost frustrate him for being without you. It’s an odd thing, but when you break up with your ex you almost expect them to go to pieces…and when they don’t, it’s unsettling. Strangely enough, it’s almost attractive. It’ll definitely get you on his mind again.

So these are just a few tips and tricks, but if you’ve been thinking them through you’ll find that they won’t just help you get your ex’s attention…they’ll also help you get more enjoyment out of life. I recommend these ideas to anybody just getting out of a relationship whether you intend to get your ex back or not…even though they’ll certainly help you to do that should that be your choice.

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If your goal is to win your ex back, it is essential that you evoke the same emotions in your ex that you used to win them in the first place.

There are 10 tips to live by, if you’re hoping to get your ex back by your side.

First of all, you need to get your ex to find you physically attractive. Dress nicely, work out, and keep an even keel. Knock your ex out with your good looks.

Be cordial when you run into your ex. Avoid begging them to take you back.

Be a shoulder for your ex to lean on, but avoid making a pest of yourself. Stay a little aloof to make him or her feel as if they need you.

Jump back into your daily life without delay. Give your ex time to see you don’t need them to live life happily.

When you’re at a party, let potential dates approach you. This will entice a rage in your ex and make them angry, and as a result will reignite their flame for you.

When talking to friends, speak positively about your former relationship. When your ex hears this, they will think fondly of you.

Do not belittle your ex’s opinions. Don’t dwell on your old relationship; move confidently into a new one.

Wear outfits your ex remembers you wearing during your relationship. This will make him or her think about what you once shared, and they may desire you again.

Take up a new activity you’ve wanted to do for a while. Your ex will find this intriguing.

Think positive. Your ex will notice and most definitely want you.