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When you begin a relationship you have to understand that you are open to being hurt. Of course, you dont think about this at the beginning of a relationship, but it is something to keep in mind. When the relationship ends you need to decide how you are going to proceed with your life. You really only have two choices: move on with your life or try to get your ex back. If you elect to try to get your ex back, there are some steps you need to follow.

The first thing you need to do is spend some quite time along refection on the relationship and why it failed. You must be aware if you do restore your relationship these same issues will present themselves again. You must be ready to deal with them.

When analyzing your relationship, remember this requires that you be honest with yourself. You need to determine what your partners feels were. If you still have an open line of communication, you may want to discuss this with your ex. You also need to determine if you are willing and able to make changes in the areas necessary. You might want to seek the advice of a trusted friend or family member to get an object outside view of your relationship.

Remember if it you that desire your ex back, it is you that has to change. You cant expect your change. Once you have thoroughly thought through the issues that caused the breakup of your relationship and what you are going to do differently, you need to contact your ex and begin a dialog.

Your ex may appreciate that you honestly reflected on the relationship and are ready to change. You should be as specific as possible. Give your ex a little room as this my surprise her. Let your partner know you will not make the same mistakes in the future.

Hopefully you can restore your relations and develop an ever deeper understand of and a love for each other.